‘My Cat Is Super Clingy, Is There Something Wrong With Him?’ : Cat Suddenly Obsessed With Owner After 8 Years, Mutual Infatuation Ensues

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Eleonora Bader
Mar 24, 2023 4:00 AM EDT

What to do when your cat is suddenly completely and utterly fixated on… you? Sure, our pets love us, but what if they were totally aloof towards us for like, 8 years, and then abruptly decide that you're their favorite person? It would strike us as a bit odd as well. One person took to Reddit, voicing her concerns over her cat's sudden infatuation. She said, 'Obviously I'm thrilled, but what if something is off?', then went on to ask for advice.

Redditors chimed in, giving their take on the situation. Some said it was normal, while others mentioned it might be worth taking her to the vet. There were also a lot of comments saying that she herself should get checked out, as perhaps her cat picked up on something, health-wise, that hasn't quite reared its ugly head yet. Scroll down for the entire, cute thread, along with some cute cat pics of the kitty 'crush' in question.

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    Cat - Posted by u/vhm3 23 hours ago My kitty has become incredibly attached to me over the last few months, is this cause for concern? (Context in comments) Advice
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    Font - vhm3 OP +1 23 hr. ago edited 18 hr. ago · Kingsley is 8 years old. Had him and his bonded pair since they were 10 weeks old. He's always been an affectionate but slightly aloof kitty. Over the past couple of months, he's gone from cuddling here and there to constantly needing to be with me. He's a little velcro kitty and follows me from room to room and sleeps under the blanket as little spoon every night. Obviously I adore this behavior, but I've read that these types of behavioral chang
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    Font - I'm not sure whether I should be basking in this or concerned. Maybe I'm the sick one and he's caught on, or maybe something in my behavior has changed. I apologize if this is silly, I just want to make sure I'm not overlooking anything of note. Thank you xx ETA: Definitely not pregnant. 3.7k Reply Share
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    Font - NoFunZoneAlways +1 - 21 hr. ago My cat did this in Jan. It was because I was anxious and sad. If your mood has changed recently, this could be it. Reply Share... 3.1k exitetrich 20 hr. ago could also be cause the house is cold. I've had a few cats who would do this only when the ambient temp is unacceptable and they wanted more warms 648 Reply Share ...
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    Font - NightmareRise 21 hr. ago · edited 21 hr. ago When I went away to college and took my cat with, I had a similar situation with him. He's become incredibly obsessive to where he follows me everywhere, gets in the way of everything I do, and even wakes me from a d₁ 1 sleep because he wants my attention. I can't close a door around him or he whines all night. He wanted to be with me so badly one time that he actually taught himself to turn my doorknob. Every waking moment of every single day
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    Font - vhm3 OP +1 . 21 hr. ago What a smart kitty! It does feel like having my own very cute stalker that I'm equally obsessed with. 193 Reply Share sherbs1313+2 11 hr. ago "very cute stalker that I'm equally obsessed with" I love this line 10 Reply Share
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    Font - Glass Straw Disaster 23 hr. ago You're not pregnant, right? My aunt had a pair of torties when I was a kid that were usually very aloof, then out of nowhere they became Velcro cats. Turns out they knew about my little cousin before she did. If he is otherwise healthy I wouldn't worry too much but keep a close eye on him and look out for signs that he is uncomfortable. Reply Share 468 +1 - 23 hr. ago Definitely not pregnant, but he has me wondering if it's something wrong with me haha. vhm
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    Font - daisymaisy505 +1 - 21 hr. ago I'm actually thinking you need a check up, not the cat. They can sense things we can't and can smell things we can't (like certain c ers). Totally not trying to wig you out, but get your b' d tested and get a checkup/physical. Reply Share ... 51 vhm3 OP 1+1 · 21 hr. ago It's been a while so that's long overdue, thank you! Reply Share 42
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    Organism - the-evil-moo 20 hr. ago I was about to suggest a pregnancy test my cat got super clingy when I was pregnant 14 Reply Share Business_Chipmunk_10 +1. 19 hr. ago That is exactly what I was going to ask. My tortie would bring things into my room when I was pregnant. Toys, a bag of jerky, the cat food bag. 13 Reply Share
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    Cat - shoveldick 22 hr. ago I am not sure about the situation tbh but that is such a good baby what a lover boy Reply Share 195 vhm3 OP +1 - 22 hr. ago Thank you! This is him right now :)
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    Organism - drudriver +2. 22 hr. ago Well. Hell yes, it's a cause for concern. How are you going to move around and do things like, go to the bathroom, go to work, etc? You MAY NOT disturb the cat! 254 Reply Share
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    Cat - vhm3 OP +1 - 22 hr. ago Hahaha never! He's never been a lap cat, but his brother always was. Now they try to share the lap so I've resigned to forever being a cat hostage. 279 Reply Share
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    Cat - AdCheap6666. 21 hr. ago 78 Reply Share
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    Font - jlmurdock77 +3 - 22 hr. ago By concern do you mean CELEBRATION? If so, then yes. 65 Reply Share vhm3 OP +1 21 hr. ago - The obsession is definitely mutual so I'm loving every second 39 Reply Share
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    Font - Sir_Meowsalot +2. 19 hr. ago Cats can react to their Humans vibes as well. Considering that this gentleman is still eating, sleeping, pooping, and weeing and generally being an active Kitty I don't think you should worry too much. However, you should definitely pick up that Kitty and look them straight in the eyes and ask them,"What is your major meowalfunction?!" If Kitty just looks at you and is chill and purring...then you got yourself a certified LoveBug 2000. Reply Share 48
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    Font - Asherlon300 · 22 hr. ago Tell him about it. He will listen. I had to do this with my female cat. She always wants food anytime she's out of food and that's not how it works. She's always on the porch and not out exploring as much. I simply told her that's enough food and to go play. And no sleeping in the garage unless it's snowy or cold.. she was upset the first two nights but got over it 57 Reply Share vhm3 OP 1+1 21 hr. ago I don't know if he's ready for "the talk". 68 Reply Share
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    Font - capilot +2.20 hr. ago Age 8 is a time when cats personalities change for the better, according to my vet. They often become more affectionate and more strongly bonded to you. (Not all cats, of course, cats are very much individuals, but it's common.) Reply Share 8
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    Font - KatzKittenz I don't think it's a cause for concern. My 1 year old tabby started off obsessed with my husband and now he's absolutely infatuated with me now. +1 22 hr. ago 13 . Reply Share
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